In this video, I share 5 signs that pride is showing up in the way you communicate.: transcript
- Orator Walubengo
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In this short video, Orator Walubengo lists five communication habits that he says reveal pride. First, picking up your phone while someone is talking to you without apologizing or acknowledging them. Second, not looking at people when they speak to you or when you greet them. Third, interrupting others and overriding their point with your own. Fourth, diminishing someone's contribution with hedging words like quite, though or but instead of plainly acknowledging what they said. Fifth, failing to use people's titles or recognize their achievements, illustrated by an anecdote in which Tony Elumelu objected to being addressed by his first name. Walubengo stresses that acknowledging titles matters, especially in executive settings. He then promotes his public speaking workshop on 12 September through High Speakers Academy, priced at 10,000 Kenyan shillings for a full day with a certificate, a book, a luncheon and networking, plus public speaking classes at 20,000 Kenyan shillings, including cohort speech and pitch training and one-on-one sessions, with a phone number for registration.
Key points
- Picking up your phone mid-conversation without apologizing or acknowledging the other person signals pride.
- Not looking at someone while they speak, or while greeting them, is presented as a sign of ego.
- Interrupting and overriding someone's point with your own is listed as the third sign.
- Using words like quite, though or but can diminish rather than acknowledge what someone said.
- Ignoring titles or achievements, such as calling a professor by first name only, shows ego.
- An anecdote says Tony Elumelu objected to being addressed by his first name.
- The video promotes a 12 September public speaking workshop at 10,000 Kenyan shillings.
- Public speaking classes are offered at 20,000 Kenyan shillings, including cohort and one-on-one options.
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- 0:00
Five things that show pride in communication. Number one, when people are talking to you and you pick up your phone and you don't apologize to them neither do you acknowledge. You just pick up the phone. Number two, when people are speaking and you're not looking at them. Either you're looking away or you greet a person and you're not looking at them. To some degree it shows ego and pride in communication. Number three, when you interrupt people. When they are saying something and then you override them with your point and say, "Yeah, in fact in fact I had this thing." And then number four, acknowledging instead of acknowledging someone has said something powerful you use words like quite, words like though, words like but. So you're saying thank you and then you say, "Well, I've learned quite some lessons." instead of saying, "I've learned some I've learned a lot of lessons." Trying to diminish what people have done. Then number five is not acknowledging people's titles or people's achievement. Let's say you meet a professor and you call them Henry instead of [music] Professor Henry.
- 0:46
Learning to acknowledge people's titles is very important. It can show ego or to some degree you don't take them seriously. There's a lady who Tony Elumelu was speaking somewhere and he called Mr. Elumelu called him Tony and Mr. and Mr. Elumelu got angry. Said, "You've called me Tony. Don't call me such." Acknowledging titles is very important in any context especially when you're talking in executive rooms. Now, this is a sign for you to attend our public speaking workshop on 12th of September courtesy of High Speakers Academy. It's only 10,000 Kenyan shillings. It's a whole day training.
- 1:14
You get a certificate. You get a book. A luncheon. You get to network. I'm telling you it will be powerful. Reach out to us on 0794959895. Get your ticket. Attend our workshop or sign up for our public speaking classes. It's 20,000 Kenyan shillings. You sign for our cohort speech and pitch or come for our one-on-one class. So see you there. Walubengo is the best training in the world. Bye-bye.
Questions
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What is the first sign of pride mentioned in the video?
Picking up your phone while someone is talking to you without apologizing or acknowledging them.
Why does the speaker say interrupting others is a problem?
Because you override their point with your own instead of letting them finish, which reflects ego.
Which words does the speaker say can diminish someone's contribution?
Words like quite, though and but, used instead of plainly acknowledging what the person said.
What example is given about acknowledging titles?
The speaker says Tony Elumelu objected when someone addressed him by his first name rather than with a title.
What does the promoted workshop include and cost?
The 12 September workshop costs 10,000 Kenyan shillings and includes a certificate, a book, a luncheon and networking.
How much are the public speaking classes?
The speaker says they cost 20,000 Kenyan shillings, with cohort speech and pitch training and one-on-one options.
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